Real life: perimenopause - a fresh perspective

“I wasn’t sure what was perimenopause and what was ‘just life’ - stress, teenagers, work, loss, change. But I realised waiting for life to calm down wasn’t helping. I needed to start looking after myself differently.”  - 46 year old female

For many of the women we support at Mission Nutrition, this is exactly how perimenopause begins - quietly, in the background of everyday demands alongside naturally fluctuating hormones.

As many women discover, it’s not always easy to know what are perimenopausal symptoms and what is simply the natural busyness and stress of midlife - juggling work, family, ageing parents, and everyday demands. The result? It may be sleeping struggles, anxiety, hair loss, fatigue, weight shifts, and that vague feeling of losing yourself. So, it’s no wonder this stage can feel overwhelming at times.

But amidst the change, this phase can also be an opportunity - a reminder to pause, reflect, and put your own wellbeing back on the list. 

The turning point comes when you start to look after yourself again - not out of selfishness, but necessity. That might mean setting clearer boundaries between work and home, making movement a daily ritual, finding small moments of calm in the noise and little sprinkles of joy to top up your cup.  

Nourishing food, steady routines, good sleep, and genuine connection can go a long way in supporting both body and mind. Working with a qualified nutritionist or dietitian can also help make sense of what’s happening physiologically and what your body needs now - to feel better and for your long-term health.  

At Mission Nutrition, we often see that perimenopause is not just about managing symptoms - it’s about reconnecting with what helps you feel balanced and supporting the process of ageing well. We work with many women navigating this transition and see first-hand how small, realistic changes can make a meaningful difference.  

Here are some practical ways to support your mind and body through this transition and for longevity: 

1.Protect your energy 

Midlife often brings competing demands. Learning to set boundaries can be one of the most transformative changes at this stage to help protect your time and energy. Make space for rest, connection, and things that lift your spirits - even very small moments add up. Whether it’s getting outside, listening to music, or simply taking a few deep breaths, these micro-breaks can reset your nervous system, build resilience and have a positive impact on outlook.  

2. Move your body 

Regular movement helps balance mood, energy and sleep - and it doesn’t need to be intense. A daily walk and some strength training can help maintain muscle and bone health, support metabolism, and moderate your stress hormones. Find something you enjoy and lock it in as part of your routine (once you start and feel the benefits, you will look forward to it – and stop pushing it aside). 

 3. Nourish yourself 

Nutrition plays a key role in how you feel, and your needs can shift during perimenopause. Build balanced meals with whole foods, colourful vegetables (for fibre and antioxidants), quality proteins, and whole grains to steady energy and support hormone changes. These can also help maintain muscle and stabilise blood sugar. Staying hydrated and keeping caffeine and alcohol in check can also make a big difference. Some supplements can also be helpful. 

If you’re unsure where to start, our team can help tailor a plan that fits your lifestyle and supports your individual symptoms and long-term health.  

 4. Rest and recharge 

Quality sleep is essential for recovery, hormone balance, and appetite regulation - but it’s often disrupted at this stage. Try keeping a consistent bedtime, limiting caffeine and alcohol (as they can affect sleep quality and next-day energy), and introducing gentle wind-down rituals such as reading, stretching, or a guided meditation. It might help to remember: rest is productive - it makes you a better person!

5. Focus on what feels good 

Perimenopause is different for everyone, but it doesn’t have to feel overwhelming. With the right information, nutrition, mindset and support, this can be a stage of strength, clarity, and growth. 

As the quote says, “By changing nothing, nothing changes.” Sometimes the smallest changes can make the biggest difference. 

Awareness, gentle steps and self-compassion can make this chapter not just manageable, but meaningful.  

"I wanted to express my sincere gratitude for the incredible, practical, and easy-to-implement advice you have given me. I never would have imagined incorporating the small changes you recommended could have such a profound impact on my wellbeing. As I navigate the challenges of perimenopause, these changes have significantly improved several of my symptoms. I feel noticeably less fatigued, my brain fog has lifted, and I no longer find myself reaching for my 'reward chocolate fix' every evening. Most importantly, I feel a renewed sense of positivity and balance. What I appreciate most is how seamlessly your recommendations fit into my busy life with young children. They are simple, sustainable, and realistic - giving me the confidence that I can maintain them long-term. So, from the bottom of my heart, thank you for truly making a difference in my life!" - 43 year old female  

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